Coffee at your place

She comes over. From the door to goodbye — you lead.

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• Think of two questions nobody asksNot "what do you do for a living". Something like: what did you dream of as a kid? One surprising question beats ten good answers — and you stop having to think of what to say.
• She already decidedOtherwise she wouldn't have come. You don't have to win her over — you can only mess it up. That takes half the pressure off.
• Decide in advance what you offerCoffee, tea, something cold — anything, just not "what would you like?" without an answer ready. She doesn't want to organise, she wants to arrive.
• Phone away before she arrivesNot once she's sitting there. Silent, face down, out of sight. One glance at your screen is the first thing she tells her friend about.
• Don’t put on an actStay who you are — just lead with your good sides. A role never lasts a whole evening, and she notices sooner than you’d like.
• She notices the small thingsWhether it smells clean. Whether there’s a spot for her jacket. None of it has to be perfect — but she notices whether you thought of her.
• What she expects but never saysThat you lead. Not dictate — decide. Asking "what do you want?" about every little thing hands her work instead of a nice evening.
• Silence is allowedYou don't have to rescue a conversation that isn't broken. Two seconds of saying nothing while looking at her — few people manage that, and that's exactly what sticks.

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